Our interest in smart phones, which have played a major role in our lives recently and social networks such as facebook, twitter, instagram and so on, has become very evident. In addition to following up to date, these networks, which enable us to meet new people and socialize, started to affect the couple or marriage relationships negatively. Most of the time when people divide each other; For example, while eating at a restaurant, we can observe whether they are communicating over social networks or just being interested in their phones without sitting and chatting.
While social media is so much in our lives, it also increases jealousy and paranoid features. Now, thanks to smart phones, because people share the place they go to, the food they eat, the clothes they wear, their body beauty; Even the people who are being followed or the photos that are viewed are the cause of jealousy between couples. Even though the couples were jealous of each other, while trying to hide their feelings; Now, social networks are destructive for the relationship, as it causes couples to secretly follow each other, conflicts, and the time spent together. While it is not correct to show social media as the only culprit in the end of marriages or the deterioration of couple relationships; separation, jealousy or divorce is a triggering factor. Social networks have been embedded in the gaps behind problems that are often not spoken or covered. Men or women who do not see the attention they want from their spouse and do not hear the words they expect provide satisfaction with the falsehood of social media. As the time people spend on their phones increases, the gaps in the relations grow even more. It can even go up to involvement of third parties, that is, deception. Since distances with different identities on social media are separate from individuals, it is possible to reach everyone without any problems, thus increasing small getaways.
Smartphones or social networks also trigger the feeling of jealousy that exists in all of us. Jealousy is the fear of losing someone that they love, own or attach to. Situations such as making new friends easily from social networks, everyone's phone being unique, and putting passwords cause intensity of fear of losing in people. Technology, which has become a part of deceptions, can sometimes justify jealousy situations; It increases the behaviors such as monitoring, questioning and controlling in unhealthy jealousy. Such people frequently check the phones and the computer, put a hidden camera in the house, and monitor the behavior of the spouse, and the slightest change, the slightest difference in the mood of the spouse, is already enough to be evidence of being deceived. In such jealousy, it would be more correct for the couple to stay away from the social network. We should not deny that social networks have a side that brings couples together as well as the negativities in the relationship. He is the architect of meeting many couples or maintaining their relationships even from afar and signing for marriage. Therefore, it is important how and for what purpose it is used before saying social media is good or bad. It will not be logical that the social networks we follow up to date are not used at all throughout the world. Finally, I would like to emphasize that the important point about relationships should be mutual harmony and awareness of problems. The relationship is the link between two things, that something cannot be done alone. For this, men and women do not have to be the same. It is only necessary to take care. When it becomes stationary, that is, if we think like a common plant we grow; When it is not fed, when the sun is not seen, when it is not watered, the solar loses its radiance and consumes itself. From this point, starting to look for solutions as soon as problems start or contacting a specialist will help you revive the relationship.
While social media is so much in our lives, it also increases jealousy and paranoid features. Now, thanks to smart phones, because people share the place they go to, the food they eat, the clothes they wear, their body beauty; Even the people who are being followed or the photos that are viewed are the cause of jealousy between couples. Even though the couples were jealous of each other, while trying to hide their feelings; Now, social networks are destructive for the relationship, as it causes couples to secretly follow each other, conflicts, and the time spent together. While it is not correct to show social media as the only culprit in the end of marriages or the deterioration of couple relationships; separation, jealousy or divorce is a triggering factor. Social networks have been embedded in the gaps behind problems that are often not spoken or covered. Men or women who do not see the attention they want from their spouse and do not hear the words they expect provide satisfaction with the falsehood of social media. As the time people spend on their phones increases, the gaps in the relations grow even more. It can even go up to involvement of third parties, that is, deception. Since distances with different identities on social media are separate from individuals, it is possible to reach everyone without any problems, thus increasing small getaways.
Smartphones or social networks also trigger the feeling of jealousy that exists in all of us. Jealousy is the fear of losing someone that they love, own or attach to. Situations such as making new friends easily from social networks, everyone's phone being unique, and putting passwords cause intensity of fear of losing in people. Technology, which has become a part of deceptions, can sometimes justify jealousy situations; It increases the behaviors such as monitoring, questioning and controlling in unhealthy jealousy. Such people frequently check the phones and the computer, put a hidden camera in the house, and monitor the behavior of the spouse, and the slightest change, the slightest difference in the mood of the spouse, is already enough to be evidence of being deceived. In such jealousy, it would be more correct for the couple to stay away from the social network. We should not deny that social networks have a side that brings couples together as well as the negativities in the relationship. He is the architect of meeting many couples or maintaining their relationships even from afar and signing for marriage. Therefore, it is important how and for what purpose it is used before saying social media is good or bad. It will not be logical that the social networks we follow up to date are not used at all throughout the world. Finally, I would like to emphasize that the important point about relationships should be mutual harmony and awareness of problems. The relationship is the link between two things, that something cannot be done alone. For this, men and women do not have to be the same. It is only necessary to take care. When it becomes stationary, that is, if we think like a common plant we grow; When it is not fed, when the sun is not seen, when it is not watered, the solar loses its radiance and consumes itself. From this point, starting to look for solutions as soon as problems start or contacting a specialist will help you revive the relationship.